Nirmala was
blessed to have Anita as her cook for both meals of the day. It has been more
than 5 years now and so Anita is like a family member for her. Anita is cooking
for around six families for lunch and dinner both, so is always in a hurry.
However, she would always try to cook food well and is able to cook variety of cuisine.
Nirmala has
always been busy with her professional commitments and hence is unable to be
with her family for lunch or dinner at times. Hence she is dependent on Anita
for keeping things ready on dining table at times. Nirmala is also a short
tempered person. So whenever Anita missed some preparation, Nirmala instantly
used to call her to ask if she has done that preparation or how could she miss
that even after knowing that her family will need it. It had become so frequent
that Anita used to get afraid on seeing Nirmala’s name on her mobile screen
anticipating the scolding in loud voice for next few minutes.
Nirmala
though has a positive approach for life. When this became routine and Anita
once told her that she gets afraid to attend her calls, she realised the unknowingly
created fear in Anita’s heart. She realised that calling and scolding Anita
after the family managed the situation was pointless. She decided to change her
approach towards Anita.
Now Nirmala
reminds Anita gently about the side preparations while sharing the menu. If
Anita has guests at other places and is to be late, Nirmala asks her to inform
in advance so that if time permits, some preparation in advance can be done. If
Anita has to go out some day, Nirmala adjusts with her and keeps the menu easy.
If anything is missed out, Nirmala tries to manage on her own and the next day she
informs Anita about it so that Anita can become more careful. Anita, on the
other hand also goes a step ahead and helps Nirmala in other kitchen related
matters like arranging utensils, cleaning vegetables, making snacks etc. If
Nirmala goes out of the town, Anita takes care of the family’s breakfast too. They share personal matters with each other.
Disclaimer:
This is an effort to share how change in approach can bring positive difference in life. More to follow.
